Howie,
I'm going to second George's invite for you to come and join us for the AROC National Convention. There really is no better real life Alfa experience than a national meet. From the track, to the autocross, dinners, concours, and fraternizing in the parking lot, it's just a great time. Also, AROC members are very friendly and welcoming, so don't think that because you are new you aren't going to fit right in and make good friends from the onset. In fact, on Wednesday, we will drive from the track to the hotel for an 8 PM gathering that includes Alfa BB people.
Yes, since some of us have been on this forum for a while but never met in person, conventions now typically have an organized meeting where we can (finally) meet face to face. Your convention badge will actually list "Alfa BB" for the planned Specialty Groups gathering.
Best regards,