A very knowledgable Alfist suggested checking to see if the intake cam was off by one tooth - it was

! Now both cams are pretty close - just off by the width of the timimg marks, I can gladly live with that! I also messed up by putting antiseeze on the head bolt threads instead of oil - he said it changes the friction enough to result in effectively higher torques so I removed, cleaned, oiled and reassembled.
Onward with the assembly. This learning curve sure is steep, but fun.
Pat