ooooo Sorry I never saw this thread before:
Its not too hard a job, the whole trans doesn't need to come out. Just pull the gearshifter extension out. While this is quite tricky (and normally if this is causeing a problem we do the whole trans) to pull out it can be done

its easier than a Alfa Sud Handbrake cable.....lol
Once the whole shooting match is out on the bench, you need to do the main bush that goes through extension (which is the main cause of sloppyness) I "found" some poly bushes in the back of the workshop (Lord knows where they came from....I've used them all now) to put in there.
Next have a look at the top rubber bush. This shouldn't be too worn, I haven't yet seen one totally die....if it has died, then a trip to U-Pull-It is required :-/
Make sure the roll pin thats on the selector shaft that sticks out the end of the gearbox is not loose, Replace it if required.
As for shift kit, I tried to make one, useing a Nissan top shifter off a FS5 transmission (R32 GTS-T Skyline) and a pair of Alfa Sud steering universals.......it, uh, reversed the gears

not good
Oh and you can move the rear extensions from one gearbox to another, a Alfa Sud 1200 series 1 will go onto a 1994 Serries 3 Alfa 33 :P
As for shifting without gears, I do some work for a Rally driver who has a old Datsun Stanza, the gearbox (a genuine works item) runs Porshe (Alfa) style syncros, he loved these things, because they worked wonderfully well at high RPM without the clutch

Try that with a trans with the "normal" warner type syncros

lol